Donor Families

On October 31, 2011, our 19-year-old son lost his battle for life. After being declared brain dead, my husband and I were called into the room with a representative from the Life Alliance Organ Recovery Agency to make a life-changing decision. At the time, Trevin was not a registered organ donor, and as I sat in a daze, listening to what she was saying and staring at what seemed to be the end result of my son’s life, I had one question: “Is there anything anyone can do to give my son back to me?” After receiving a shattering no and for a brief second, I thought about what Trevin would want me to do. Trevin was a dear and sweet child and he would have given anything to anyone if it was in his power to give. With him in mind, I decided to say yes to organ donation. However, although I agreed to donation, I had no understanding of the impact it would have, not only in the lives of others, but in my life as well; it wasn’t until I received a letter from the organization stating Trevin’s organs were used to save the lives of four people. I knew then that I had made the right decision. It’s bittersweet, but I am honored to be a donor’s mom.

There’s not a day that goes by when I don’t miss him, and I know he would be so honored to be a part of such great cause. I am truly grateful that God has allowed us to take this horrible tragedy to turn it into a miracle for others.

- Renee Jones, Donor Mom