For a while, much of life may seem to be without meaning. At times like these, small goals are helpful. Something to look forward to, like playing tennis with a friend next week or a trip next month, will help you get through the present. Living one day at a time is a good rule of thumb. At first, do not be surprised if your enjoyment of those things is not the same; this is normal. As time passes, you may need to work on long range goals to give new structure and direction to your life.